• Phubbing: When love slips through the screen

    Editorial Assistant: Rinat Meerson

    Note: An earlier version of this blog post has been published in the German version of In-Mind.
     

    We all know this situation: we want to tell the other person something, but they only have eyes for their smartphone. This behavior has a name: Phubbing. But how does phubbing change our relationships and do we have to switch back to reading the newspaper to be a good partner?

    Our world has gone digital, and with this advancing digitalization, the pitfalls of modern relationships have changed. One phenomenon that has gained increased attention is “phubbing” - a

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  • Now I ain’t sayin she’s a gold digger, but will she get with someone who makes less than her, either?

    In this post I review research showing that women do not care about partner’s income as much as people may think. In fact, the research suggests that both men and women overestimate the degree to which the other gender cares about money in relationships. These findings are particularly relevant given that some opponents of the 2014 U.S. Paycheck Fairness Act have stated that women prefer to make less money than their romantic partners.

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  • Learning from our dreams

    In this post, I describe how dreams are associated with people’s behavior after waking up, especially in the context of their close relationships. Have you ever felt upset at someone after what they did in your dream? There are several theories to explain how and why this happens, along with some references to Friends and The Matrix.

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